Dowry harassment of men and misuse of law?
Friday, August 8 2003 13:51 Hrs (IST)
This article describes the fate of lots of unfortunate husbands, whose life have been destroyed as they
refuse to bow before the unreasonable demands of wives. When the wife decides, for a variety of
reasons, not to stay with the husband, if the wife decides to take revenge, or to blackmail, a false dowry
case is the first step.
My case the well-qualified and excellent earning wife says to husband " either you agree to everything I
say or I will not leave you, destroy you, kill you."
The husband has to understand all what she wants, be a puppet who behaves, talks as per her views,
wishes.
Wife refuses to let husband live with their daughter, inside reason given husband is not good enough for
the wife. Daughter remains with Nana - Nani.
Wife says, " It is the first job of today's wives to separate the husband from his parents" so no question
of staying with boys parents.
Wife says " In marriage Jo daba leta hai uski chalti hai, so within a month of marriage wife stands of the
edge to jump from 3rd floor, on some minor pretext, so as to instil fear, and get an upper hand on
husband, will regularly hit herself and husband to make the husband agree to her wrong demands.
Leaves house in absence of husband so that she along with her parents can make false jewellery
allegations on the husband.
Wife has not spent any money from her salary after marriage and most money of husband is spent. Wife
says, "My money will not be touched and all your salary will be spent ".
Still dowry allegation.
At the time of marriage it was told that wife will most likely have to leave job to take good care of kids.
Now she refuses to leave her job to take care of the daughter.
Now in CAW (crime against women cell the wife says dowry harassment, constant beatings, that the
husband asked her to get a sex determination test done for the child.)
Wife has a right for divorce, as the NCW (National Commission for Women) and CAW cells will threaten
the husband of false cases to force the husband to give divorce to wife.
Why is this right not given to husband. The possession of child is also usually not given to husband. Is
not husband a living being who has the right to reproduce, and stay with his children.
All because the wife and her parents know the power of false allegations in CAW laws.
Husband's liability should be limited to financial assistance, it is a great cruelty to force him to live alone
throughout his life, by not giving him a divorce.
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